Choosing a partner is not easy. No matter how well your partner's personality will greatly affect your happiness. The conclusion is in line with the results of a recent study from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology conducted by British and American researchers.
"Negative personality couples become the biggest poison in a relationship," says Richard W. Robins of the University of California. In conclusion, of course you expect to find a partner that has a positive personality. Because that's where the source of harmony and happiness. Do the wrong choice, first identify what kind of men are dangerous and you need to avoid.
not committed. It's not easy to ask someone to commit. But if the relationship has lasted so long and intense but the he was also not clearly wants, you should leave. You will continue to be outstanding, no clarity on the future of the format, because the he could not make a decision. Hoping to men is just a waste of time, and also close your chance to socialize or relate to other men.
If you find a man who is reluctant to have any commitments, he needs to avoid. Could be, he just wants to have fun alone with you. "Men like these have one thing in common: they are not able to provide security, steady and earnestness that can be happy you are in love," says Gilda Carle, author of Do not Bet on the Price! How to Have the Man You Want by Betting on Yourself.
Losers are not independent. A good relationship is always based on openness. Can share the feeling and expressing the problem and then solve them together. But what would happen if your partner was more frequently complain. In fact it works just complaining, though there was nothing he could do but cry over the fate. Not the least he tried to change the fate or grateful delicious no matter how small.
Do not enter this male type in the list of your dream man. Useless! You will only be a waste basket. Very dependent, like a baby who always sneak in her armpit. You also have a problem, and need someone as a backrest, and it can not be met by the men of this type.
Mama's boy. While similar types of man above, this type of mama's boy too do not have you think. Indeed, every child would have to be always devoted to his mother. Always communicate, or visit if not live together anymore. But what if it was all done because she always takes her mother. Even for all affairs, he always involves his mother.
Ignore it kind of man of this kind. If you choose, you can not build a free and independent in the household. In fact you just become baby sisters of adult babies.
Submission. If the song lyric "... to its knees in the corner shining lady" would be applied, the type of man this seems appropriate. He did not have a stance. Anything you disclose or want, he will be grateful. There was no attempt to argue or present argument. Initially you might enjoy it. But after a long time you feel like a very heavy burden risk. All your issues that bear it. Stay away from this type of man. Communication is the essence of a good relationship. And good communication can not you get from this type of man. He demands that you be a woman like Nyai Ontosoroh in his novel This Earth of Mankind Pramoedya Ananta Toer. You are powerful, but you also could not bear it alone.
Want to own it. Turned right of the kind of man above, who are too self-confident man you should also get rid of. Confidence is important. But if too confident will actually make the shame and annoying. For example, so believe him, he was wearing a shirt at the official ceremony. Though clearly written on the invitation card to use a full suit.
Because self-confidence, he also felt this type of "smart" and know everything. Because want to stand out, he became the man who "smart" for various things. And you know very well that what he said a big zero. Men are hard to hear and can not stand criticism.
Levers of the past. There is also the kind of man who is very vindictive. Once he is hurt, even slightly, he will keep it in the liver. And one day ready to blow it up. Stay away from this type of man. It could be any time you make a mistake - everyone must have done something wrong - and he would not forget it. Once there is a chance, no wonder, he will mention it again. He is not easy to forgive, even though you have done a variety of ways to redeem the error.
Got a couple. Likened male adults who never satisfied. Often they feel the need to cheat to satisfy yourself, make yourself feel good or attained their pride if the affair. "In their minds interpret for not having sex with other women, meaning they do not betray their official partner." Said Michael W. Wiederman, a psychologist at Columbia College professor who led the research regarding that behavior. It could be one when you are attracted to such men. Men who are not free because it already had a partner or wife is usually really interesting. He's smart seduce, couples indulge and closeout promise this and that. But be careful, there can be no future for you. Although he promised to divorce his wife or girlfriend and your vote. All just lips service alone! "They are like a sale promise, selfish, regardless of your feelings," says Carle.
Superior cosmetic. This type of man is easily recognizable. Look at the way she dressed and dressed. He always tried to follow the fashionable style. Although shopping for clothes with her very enjoyable. He could also be a fashion critic for you. But it would be a bitch when she started to fuss for little things that do not need. Avoid relationships with men of this type. Do-do when you get married, he was just busy with dressed alone. Could be, he also hates watching actor Steven Seagel but instead infatuated with the latest makeup Madonna.
Stylish boss. Economical in some degree necessary. But if there is efficient because the stingy man, stay away from him. This guy is very annoying. With him you just will always stroking his chest. Imagine, for every cent he made, always carefully calculated. He was only thinking about the income, is like a street vendor. Romance is also measured by how frugal spending couples.
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